There is no dearth of ‘love experts’ and ‘love gurus’ saying that being honest with your partner about your past is overrated. If being honest with your partner about your past can lead to a problem in your relationship, then hide your past, they say.

It is well know fact that “as you sow, so shall you reap”. Being honest will only do good in long run though it may the accepted with resistance at first.

If your partner has trouble accepting your past, and if that is a reason for him/her to have a problem in being with you, then the relationship probably isn’t worth the effort in the first place. Being honest with your partner will only help build the trust in the relationship, a factor that is essential in any long term relationship.

If you intend to hide your past from your partner and hope that it stays that way, you should know that skeletons have a strange way of coming out of the closet. Being honest with your partner at the very onset will save you the trouble of having to hide your tracks later on.

Remember, strong relationships are built on trust; and just as you would expect your partner to be honest with you, your partner would expect you to be honest as well.

When it comes to a relationship there are lots of things which come to our mind. Now how to find out whether your man thinks you are a good girlfriend. One you can find out with the way he treats you or maybe you will realize with his body language.

When your man thinks you are really good he will reflect in his activities. He will start consulting you even for small matters. Be patient do not rush to find out what he has in his mind. Be honest and patient. When you do any mistake make sure you say sorry. Do not try to push him to the corner to know what he exactly has in his mind. If a man thinks you are really good for him he will start discussing his wants, needs and beliefs with you. Do not talk or do anything to please him do what you think is correct. But make sure it doesn’t hurt him too much in anyway. When he shows interest in your interests or just try to observe why he likes or loves those, for sure he will think you are good for him. He will never complain or find fault in you when he feels that you are good. A man adjusts with his girl or never tries to change her when he really feels that she is good. A man always falls for girls who are smart, confident and independent. When you stop nagging him and let him spend time with his family and friends he will start thinking you are the best. He loves when you make him happy. You may even make him happy by doing nothing. When you show him that his happiness is yours he will start thinking you as the best and will never let you go.